18 Is To Young
I married at 18 and believe me i was so immature.I have been with my husband for 32 years and it was never a happy marriage.we have 2-boys and i wish i would never have married him.His Family is number one on Holidays and there is so much verbal abuse.He cheated and you name it for the first 25 years.He still LUSTS over othere women.He watches young women on tv and even watches them excersise.Is that a happy marriage.He has pulled some really bad stunts.I did not know all the dirt he did to me till three months after our first boy was born.How do you break up a family.I live a sad life huh
Posted by Kathy; updated 11/21/04
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I married right out of highschool also. I did no live with him right away as he went into the military and I stayed home and went to college, graduated, started my career and had a house built. I visited him every chance I got and I looked forward to those visits. I don`t know what he does while he is away from me but I know that I trust him 100% until he give me a reason not to. At the first reason, I would want to get counseled as I did marry "until death do we part" but if it continues after that, I am packing up and rolling out because if you can`t be trusted (and especially cheating) then I am not wasting my time. My time and my life is too valuable and precious for me to waste it on someone who doesn`t love me and anyone who cheats, lies and tears down your dreams or your self worth is not worth it.
Posted by Mika; updated 11/22/04
