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I meet this incredible guy about 7 months ago when i was in the military. We didn`t get a chance to talk while i was stationed where he was. So we started talking when i got home. I just went to see him and got to spend 4 days with him for the first time. Everything went wonderful! We hit it off great! We already talked about me moving with him and getting married so i can live with him on post. I would love to be with him and would be in a second. He is everything i ever wanted in a guy and vice verse. I am 21 living with my parents in MA and he is in MO. I know my parents would never approve of their "baby" doing something so crazy. But i know he is the one for me. I feel it every time i just looked at him, it was amazing!! I don`t want to lose him. Do i just go and marry him to be with him or wait things out for a lil`while? I don`t want to lose him to anyone else while i am not there. I just honestly want to be with him. What do i do?
Posted by Elizabeth; updated 11/16/04
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I agree. I know how I would feel as a mother and I think that you doing this just because your heart is skipping a beat right now, is not a wise decision. Take time to know him and to see how things go from there. There is nothing to rush.
Posted by Mika; updated 11/17/04
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Thanks for the advice! He is trying to get relocated up here in my state so we can be together. He already took 2 weeks leave the first of january to stay with me and meet my family! I just like him so much and i don`t want to lose this one! I know i am gonna try to take things as slow as possible. If its meant to be then it will be and if not then live and learn and DRIVE on, right? thats what i keep telling myself to get me through the days !
Posted by Elizabeth; updated 11/18/04
