To Get Married Or Not To Get Married
Hey my ex-boyfriend found out that I was pregnant with his kid. Well we got back together but then i dont hear from him like for two weeks so i call him and he tells me he was just busy. His friend calls me two days later and is like hey dan is getting married. I freaked out...i guess it was over with us then....so i call him and asked for the truth he told me he was getting married....but he wasnt sure when he was gonna tell me.......the girl he has only knew for 2 weeks and proposed to her after 3 days......a lil screwed up dont ya think.....should i just stand back and let them get married or do something about this.
Posted by keysha; updated 10/25/04
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You have no right to interupt. He is a grown man who can make his own decisions. Just because you are carrying his child doesn`t entitle you to make all his decisions for the rest of his life. Leave him alone and concentrate on your baby.
Posted by Sarah; updated 10/25/04
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This guy sounds like an A-hole, and Karma will come back to him. Don`t worry about anything, just get on with your life and be happy you aren`t stuck with someone like that.
Posted by Lisa; updated 10/25/04
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I agree that you should not interrupt. That could cause him to hate you and push you and the baby away. It may be hard for you to do this, but you must stand back and stay out of his business. I know that you explained the story and I understand that you are confused but you have to let him live his life. Take some time to cry it out, sort out your life and focus on the pregnancy and a healthy baby. I would let him know about the baby if and when he asks but I would keep his parents in the baby`s life. Don`t push them away just because he is doing it to you. There is someone out there for you and he will respect you and the baby so don`t hold on to something that isn`t. Good luck with the baby.
Posted by Mika; updated 10/28/04
