Help!!!

Your message doesn`t make a lot of sense. If you need advice, people are more likely to give it if you will proof read your post and make sure it is worded correctly.

Where are you planning on having the ceremony?
Can you ask your mom to help you with the planning... I asked my mom and while there were times I got frustrated with her she was a huge help and we got to spend a lot of time together. It was really nice.
One of the first things you need to do is make your budget. Decide how much you have to spend and how you want to divide it among the different expenses.
Then you need to start calling places and getting prices. I`d also suggest talking to people around your area who might have some advice on good places and vendors.