Home Wedding

Absolutely - you are being very gracious in having the ceremony in your home ... Bottom line is that it still is your home. I am sure that concerns brought up in the proper manner can be alleviated without any problems

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Thanks, COnnie. I am trying so hard to not upset anyone that I think I have forgotten myself! The latest request is that both couches be moved from the sunroom where the food is to be displayed. The couches are very heavy with lazy boy recliners on each end. These will have to be moved to the garage and that is Ok, it is just the fact that these type of requests are being made at the last minute.

I agree with Connie, you have to let them know that you don`t mind certain things but they have to make these decision with you and not just to you. You have given them a wonderful gift by opening up your house for the ceremony and that is a big deal in itself, they should be reasonable with all requests that they make. Talk to them soon so that it gets more controlled and good luck!

Thanks, Mika. I seem to need a lot of support and encouragement these days!

Linda,
Absolutely! You have the right to say NO. Use it for your sanity sake. Your new couple will be part of a family -- yours! Meeting unrealistic expectations is a pattern you wil feel obligated to continue if you start it now.
Love,
Joy

You definitely have the right to say no and set limits in your own home. You can explain to them that reasonable furniture moving is expected, but that there are certain things you are not willing to budge on. It`s perfectly acceptable for you to decide what the limits are in your own home. They can either appreciate what you`ve graciously offered of they can find another place to hold their wedding.

Hi Linda,
I have done 2 weddings at my home...my nephew`s and that of a VERY good friend. Both had about 100 people. I DID move the furniture out to allow for flow of traffic and also removed several doors leading to the outside. I would be happy to share the tips I have learned if you are interested..just let me know! In both instances, the couples helped with all the work. If your sweeties want the furniture moved then have them bring a few buddies over to help them do it early on the day BEFORE the wedding.
Having a wedding at home is a lot of work and there are a ton of details..in the end it was worth it as both weddings we hosted were lovely. I have tons of pictures if you`d like see some :0)

Thanks, Kady. I appreciate all your tips and encouragement. I do hope they don`t ask to remove doors! We want this to be the most special day of their life with NO tears! :) Just happy memories to last a lifetime. This will also be my second home wedding that I have hosted. We were also married in our parent`s home 30 years ago.