Help Talking To Parents About Getting Married
Just a little background for you my mom married young and they had me they got devoriced and my mom moved back in with her parents (that would be the people that I live with). My mom got married again about 2or 3 years later and she die just a few years after that.
Ok here is what is going on, by boyfriend and I have been friends since February 2003, Now we have been dating since January of 2004. Now we have been dating 9 almost 10 mounts and we need help with talking to my grandparents .
Posted by Nickie; updated 09/28/04
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Hi, firstly, how old are you? I can understand their concern if ur underage. Ideally, try to talk to them without your BF. Let them know how u feel. Then introduce him to them and let them see that he is a responsible gentleman that they would want for you. Do NOT lie about anything, cos they’ll feel u cant trust u or him. Obey all curfews and let him come to ur house more than u go to his. If u just show ur g/parents date y have nothing to worry about, I hope they’ll be ok.
Posted by Mrs Bride; updated 10/01/04
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2 questions: How old are you and your boyfriend? and how do your grandparents feel about your boyfriend in general? Do they like him?
Posted by MJB; updated 10/01/04
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We are both 21 and My parents do like him
Posted by Nickie; updated 10/04/04