Bridesmaids Form Hell (What Should I Do?)

I just talked with my maid of honor and she explained to me how to of my bridesmaids had made comments that they were going to back out of my wedding. These I thought were very close freinds of mine and I never thought they would do something like this to me. I have already purchased their gifts and I have groomsmen for their partners who have already payed for there tuxedos. I don`t know what I am going to do but I feel so uneasy I don`t know how to approch the two of them and my wedding is in November. What shoul I do? I really don`t want to go off on them they are my freinds I just don`t know how to go about it.
Posted by Candida; updated 09/21/04

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Try just asking them. You don`t have to go off or anything just tell them what you heard and that you were worried.
Posted by Janine; updated 09/22/04

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I think you should have a meeting and be able to discuss any concerns openly and honestly. Sometimes there is a lot of jealousy, even by those that we consider to be close friends. The friend that told you about the comments, had no right to do so. She should have tried to resolve the problem with the other ladies or kept it to herself.
Posted by Lori; updated 09/22/04