40th Birthday, PLEASE HELP!

I am planning a surprise 40th b-day party for my sister. I am looking for some ideas that are new and fun. (No death, black stuff.)

I'm especially looking for ideas with party games (maybe having to do with baby pix of the b-day girl), decorations, favors, etc.

Any help would be appreciated.
Posted by Gigi; updated 03/14/01