MY CHAMBELAN DE HONOR

HEY FRIENDS!
I KINDA NEED HELP ON WHO TO PICK TO BE MY CHAMBELAN DE HONOR.........I DUNNO IF I SHOULD HAVE MY BEST FRIEND OR MY BOY FRIEND........BUT IF I HAVE MY BEST FRIEND ITS KINDA AWKWARD CUZ ITS KINDA WIERD BEING WITH HIM AS MY DATE.......YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN? I LIKE HIM AS A FRIEND BUT ITS JUST WIERD. IM THINKING ABOUT MY BOY FRIEND AND HES 19. IM 15 BUT AGE DOSNT MATTER TO ME. BUT DO YOU THINK MY BOY FRIEND IS BEST? IM CONFUSED. PLUSE IF MY BEST FRIEND IS MY DATE...MY BOY FRIEND WILL PROBABLY GET JEALOUS. WELL I DUNNO I KINDA WANT ME BOY FRIEND TO BE IT CUZ I LOVE HIM SO MUCH!!! BUT I DUNNO ILL LEAVE IT ON YOUR HANDS......YOU TELL ME WHO I SHOULD PICK OR WHAT I SHOULD DO.....AND THE MOST PEOPLE WITH THE SAME ANSWER.....THATS WHAT IM GONNA DO SO PLEASE RESPOND!!!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH

LOVE ALWAYZ

VANESSA SAN MARTIN
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Posted by VANESSA; updated 08/10/04

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Well I think that your chambelan do honor should be a close cousin or a brother if you have one. Girl what are you doing with a 19 year old boyfriend. Quinceaneras are for young ladies who should not be dating at all. You are a young lady and you are dating a man. What is this world coming to. Well good luck in what ever you choose.
Posted by Theresa; updated 08/10/04

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I know what you`re going through. I have until dec. 4th to decide who i want to be my escort. It`s either gonna be my best bud or my boyfriend. My mom thinks i should go with my best bud b/c if something happens w/ my bf-like if we break up i can look back at all the pics from my party and remember i went w/ my best bud instead of some loser who i broke up with. Plus if your 15anos is a year from now are you that sure you and your bf will still be together??? And if you go ahead and say your going w/ your bf and then you guys break up and then go right to your best friend he might feel like he`s a rebound and not want to do it at all. But do what you feel- after all it`s your birthday!! Whatever you choose make sure that it will make you happy!!!! Hope i helped!!
Posted by Shelby; updated 08/10/04

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Hi vanessa maybe u should choose ur bf if u love him so much! whoever u love the most i guess and who would be more comfortable with being ur chambelan de honor
Posted by Laurie; updated 07/16/07

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I personally will suggest boyfreind have fun and enjoy hope u can shared ur video of ur quince
Posted by vianey; updated 07/16/07

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I think you should go with you best friend. Best friends last longer than guys do.
&&your best friend probably has stuck with you through everything.
Posted by karen; updated 07/19/07

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I think you should go with your Boy Friend. Not to sound dude, but...DUH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I obviously don`t know you or anything, but i think if you`ll go back and read what you wrote as if you didn`t write it and were reading it for the first time, you`d see how blaitently obvious it is that you should go with your boy friend. Definately!
Posted by Ben Ther, Dun It; updated 07/20/07

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I belive that you should someone close be your chambelan for your 15 like a brother or some cousin someone that hopefully you get talk to for a long time my 15 is gonna be in a few months since i have neither a brother or a cousin i am having a close friend he is actually a family friend so i hoped i helped
Posted by greenfreek; updated 07/23/07

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U SHULD CHOOSE UR BOYFRIEND NO DOUBT ABOUT THAT!.
Posted by cristal; updated 09/03/07

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IF I WAZ U , I WOULD CHOOSE MY BEST FRIEND,BECAUSE I JUST WENT IN A QUINCE LAST MONTH AS A DAMA AND THE QUINCEANERA HAD HER BOYFRIEND. HE IS 21 AND EVERYTHING WENT GOOD UNTIL THE END OF THE PRATICA AND THEN THEY BROUK UP ! SHE DID NOT EVEN WANT TO HAVE HER QUINCE BECAUSE OF HIM.BUT U DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO BECAUSE WHO AM I TO TELL U WHAT TO DO .DO WHAT MAKES U HAPPY !!! I HOPE I REALLY HELP U !!!!!! GOOD LUCK
Posted by alissa; updated 09/03/07

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Girl seriously have ur bff as ur chambelan de honor what if u break up WITH UR BF hello... Think about that and second as much as u may love him the odds are against u. Their is a high chance u wont stay together and then you`ll have ur video with him and it`ll just bring sad memories not happy. Girl its ur day not his ITS NOT A WEDDING! girl if its age my cousin he`s with a girl 6 years younger than him sont worry about that. Just think. My chambelan de honor is a friend i grew up with so he`s practically my bro i seriously wouldn`t think of anyone else but him as my chambelan de honor. Girl dont decide on what we think decide on what u feel is right
Posted by JACKIE; updated 09/04/07