Turning 14 Is So Hard!

I am turning 14 and I want to have a party and i want it to be GREAT because my last ones have been bad. But I am at such an odd age and well some people have bf/gf but um they useully don`t talk and are shy. (most are 13 years old) and they are kinda imature... So I don`t want to push anything like u know having a big dancing thing or spin-the-bottle ( nothing that involves people to be that close - it makes them uncomftorble...) so now I am having a big issue with what to do. Cause i don`t want to have an all girls thing because my guy friends are awsome. HELP! what should I do?
P.S.
I don`t wanna do anything with water, it seems kinda idk blah...