Ceremony/Vows Reading

My Fh and I are having a real hard time coming up with the ceremony readings and vows. We are going traditional with the Do you take this man and so on........
But we don`t know what else to include in the offiants reading. We are using a service that normally handles this sort of thing but the readings we were sent to look over were not what we were looking for. We aren`t religious and want to keep out all references of the Lord, God, or Jesus and so on. Nothing against religion it`s just not for us at the moment.

Anyone got any ideas? Thanks. Sxymsviolet@aol.com