dissapointed in this childish behavior.

I would just like to say that I am very disappointed in the way some of our fellow partypoppers are handling themselves these days it is very sad. This contest was brought to light to bring people hope in the possibility that they could have the wedding of their dreams. While I have not agreed with some of the goings on as of late I am particularly troubled that partypop would allow some of these post on their message boards. While rudeness and vulgarity may be an everyday thing in everyone's lives must we be in contact with these things 24/7? I would like to point out to some that this is not an adult only site and children and teens may be frequenting this site to vote for friends or family. What kind of example are some us showing by these nasty accusations and below the belt hits. Not just the children but others as well, a contest that was meant to give one lucky couple the opportunity of a lifetime. I do not believe that this was set up as a battle field for those of us who are unhappy with the results and feel the need to call names and make accusatory statements as well as throw a couple of low blows when no one is looking. Please take a moment to rethink of all of the reasons that you entered this contest. I think I am safe in assuming that some of these reasons were for love and happiness and dreams. I for one had a wonderful time remembering some of the good as well as the bad as my story tells you. I am happy just to have captured those memories on paper. I am sure everyone entered this knowing there would be only one winner, I know that winner is not me but that is okay. The sun will come up tomorrow and I will still have my family these are the things that are important. Please do have faith in the system if partypop has found things to be corrupt they correct the problem best to their ability. Even if I don't agree with everything they do ( including allowing some of these posts) I feel they will do what they can to make this fair. Also I would like to share with everyone something I heard once.......It is better to lose fairly than to win on false terms. I truly feel that those of us who feel the need to fabricate stories or just throw a few punches need to think of a few things. What goes around comes around that is just the way of the world. So just remember this and please know that if anything unfair is going on it will be found and I if someone is lucky enough to get away with cheating. They will have to live with that for the rest of their lives. That is a something far worse than I could handle. Imagine trying to teach your child right from wrong and knowing that you cheated and lied. I believe that is a fate far worse than any of use could dream of.

This post is not meant as an attack, and I do believe those of us that this is written for will know who they are.

Every one have a wonderful day, and please remember the truly important things in your life are with you everyday.

Christy B.