Let`s Take A Poll Everyone

Here`s a kicker. Ok, you want sponsorships - and say you get them....If you`re not incurring the expense of the wedding like all of us are - why should you get gifts? You should no longer be entitled to showers, gifts or cash gift. It didn`t cost you anything, so why should we all feel obligiated to pay for our plate - you did pay for it!
I`m going to crash all of the sponsored weddings with my friends and family - eat for free, as this is supposed to be an "advertisement" of your caterer, right... Establish if I like it or not, and leave. I will thank you before I leave, of course, take some of the business cards.... But I will not feel obligated to give you a gift nor feel bad that I came, as you did not feel bad for asking for sponsorships - so I won`t feel bad for coming to your weddings. That way the businesses that sponsored you will truly have a real advertisment - as I will now know what everything looked and tasted like. That would be considered a true advertisement - who`s with me?
So when and where is the next wedding - you can count me in!!

Ok Nodia, I do belive I was asked for my opinion and that what you got. I have never mention the fact that I have no babies until now. I have been nothing but helpfull to the people on here just take a look back and see all the sites and info I have provided and no rude comments until now.

YES- If you want help, I think you need to have the humility to ask for it and that is what these women have. If you are sick of seeing their messages asking for sponsors, then stop opening them up and responding- if it`s a waste of your time then leave it alone. Stop whining about how hard you have to work- if you are jealous of these women then ask for help yourselves.

OK. I vote NO for sponsored weddings.

You WERE burned, we ARE ALL laughing, and you ARE immature because you`re still writing back!
Anna, sorry, Ms. Anna, is right - you`re looking for closure because your stuck between a rock and a hard place!

And since when was this thread about you anyway - you made it about you. Expect to be burned if you talk smack about others. I agree with Ms. Anna.

As for this thread - I too strongly disagree with sponsorships.

Mandy
You and Anna made it about me when you felt the need to object to me stating how I felt.

If I’m not mistaken Anna originally got upset because I wouldn’t bash those who wanted a sponsored wedding. Well she gave her opinion and I gave mine and will continue to do so.

No one objected to the way you felt Nodia, they objected to the way you were saying it, and then taking the matter to another level by bashing peoples lifestyles. Do you have a problem comprehending phrases? I took the liberty of reading what you posted and what you did is what turned this post against you - you bashed Sabrina and the way she said one thing or another - you`re not thinking - give it up while you have the chance Nodia - you`re wrong. You have the right to your opinion, but know when to stop - you totally changed the path of this post and made it about you because of your rudness. Take it elsewhere we are all seriously not interested.
As for my opinion on sponsorships, I`m 50 - 50 on the subject, it`s a touchy matter. It depends on what they are looking for, freebies or discounts, and of course their circumstances. Don`t plan a 300 person wedding and not be willing to flip part of the bill. If you want a freebie, you better have a good reason, and choose a frugal set up. Don`t make it lavish, it`s just not right in my opinion, it`s kind of like taking advantage of someone`s generosity. And I don`t think you should expect gifts either.

Enough Already you are all in the same boat, you have all behaved immaturely she said how she felt then someone replied to it and on and on. It all seems kind of silly to me because this stared on a poll to bash other people for wanting sponsors so don’t get all high and mighty now and by the way she is right about having children out of wedlock what did that have to do with anything.

We know it`s you Nodia, you`re writing style didn`t change..........Just stop writing!!!!!