Concerned Maid Of Honor...
Im going to be maid of honor in my friends wedding in October. She has had her `dream` wedding planned since she was 12 and that was what she was going to do. A smaller all white wedding with burnt orange for accents... Ie: tiger lillies for bouquets, invitations and cake. Her new in-laws however disagree... And she has suddenly changed to pink dresses with white roses, large formal reception... All that. I have asked her if she changed to make them happy, she said no, but suddenly she isnt excited anymore and she keeps bursting into tears over nothing. This is not like her at all and im worried that their ruining her wedding for her. I dont want to cause problems or make things worse by bringing it up.... But this is supposed to be the happiest time of her life and shes hating it. Is there something I can do?
Posted by Amie; updated 06/17/04
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I would bring it up to her again when you are alone, and tell her what you think.
Posted by Christi; updated 06/17/04
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If i were you i`d try to find some different quotes and decoration ideas for her dream wedding.. Maybe she`s having difficulties finding what she wants.... Also, ask her about her why she`s changed the plans another time when you`re alone. Be supportive and encouraging, that`s what she needs... Maybe talk to her FH if ur on good terms with him, because he would have noticed the change too.
Posted by Gret; updated 06/17/04
