Wedding Shower

I am getting remarried. Neither of us had a "wedding" the first time and we are looking forward to our big day. My one sister wants to give me a shower but my other sister thinks it is totally out of line. My co-workers agree that there is nothing wrong with the idea. HELP PLEASE! I realize we don`t need toasters and such but I think it would be a nice way for everyonr to meet and they can always give gift cards or personal items if they wish. Your thoughts?????