Poll: Are You Going To Try For Babies Right A

Yes we are

I am going to have a lot of fun trying, but not having any. I already have 2 and that is my limit!

What does this have to do with weddings?? Why don`t you go to a pregnancy board somewhere and talk about it. Good Lord, not everybody is obsessed with getting pregnant.

Shut-up ling just wanted something fun you need relax

Ling, I hope that with that attitude YOU`RE NOT thinking about having children right away! Relax, if you don`t like the conversation don`t respond! Easy as that girl! Anyways, I have two beautiful children already and marrying the man of my dreams on 7/16/05! We are planning on having one more baby but not right away maybe 2 or 3 years after the wedding! Good luck to all of you that are planning on having babies right away! Nothing in this world compares to becoming a mommy!!!!

Yes, we are hoping to get pregnant right away!! Neither of us have children, and I will be 25, and he will be 27 at the time of our vows. My fiance and I love children, and are looking forward to having them. Truthfully, if it was up to my fiance, I would be expecting right now:)

Oh yes we are!! We will be 28 and 26 once we marry in Oct. And He cant wait! me either. Our joke is once we say I do we will be busy for 30 min forget pictures haha.We want atleast 3. Good luck and have fun everyone

No, we want to wait. Right now we`re not sure how long or sure if we want to have children at all. If we do I imagine it will be between 6-10yrs.

Well I already have 2 kids from a previous relationship and we will have 1 more together. Not soon though. I hope to be expecting within the next 2-3 years.

Definitely waiting awhile, at least 2-3 years. We want to be financially prepared for kids, plus we want time to ourselves, to travel, he wants to finish school, and I want to write. Not that you can`t do those things with kids around, but it would be a lot more difficult.

Having two kids, I thought all that stuff would be hard too but it isn`t. I have great parents that love to watch my kids. They even take them on week long vacations with them out of state and that gives my FH and I some time together. I had my kids young, I was 18 with my first one and 22 with my second. I will still be young when my kids graduate and move out on their own. I feel like I have the best of both worlds!
I am joining the Air Force, I will get to do all the traveling I want and don`t want! I will retire at 46 with full military benefits, no kids at home. I will be set. I don`t want to be 60 yrs old when my kids graduate so we have decided not to have anymore.

Good luck to all, those who want them right away and those who want to wait! Either way, there is nothing more beautiful than having your own little bundle of joy!

My fiance wants kids immediately and we probably should. We`ve been together 7 years and I`m 29, so I guess if I`m going to have children I should start pretty soon after we`re married in Sept. I would like to wait a year...sometimes I think I`ve waited too long already though. Best wishes to all of you on your weddings and your children.

Definitely waiting a couple years. I`m 27 and don`t want them till I`m in my mid 30`s. I have a great career and I`m not willing to walk away from it...yet! Plus my best friend had twins...after seeing what she went through I just know I`m not ready!!

No, we`re going to wait a few years. We are both ready for kids though and I have a friend who`s due in a week, so it`s baby fever around here. I was always saying " oh honey let`s have a baby now".. But a few weeks ago I thought I was pregnant and it freaked me out, because I want to finish univeristy first.... So I guess I`m not as ready as I thought.... We`ll wait a few years.

If money was no object, we would start right away. We just bought a house less than a month ago, so our honeymoon money just went toward the down payment. My fiancee also has a lot of debt (student loans, etc.) which needs to be paid off first. We love kids and can`t wait for the right time to come along though. I`m 22 and he`s only 27, so we still have a lot of time.

Definitely not. I`m guessing I`m the youngest person on this board, or atleast one of the youngest. I`m currently 19 and my fiance and I will be getting married next summer (2005) about one month before I turn 21. Although our reason for not trying right away isn`t because we don`t want kids or think we`re too young. It`s just I`m a realist. Kids are expensive and a lot of work and we`ll have plenty of kids around us to take care of anyway (we both are going into teaching). The plan is to save, save, save for five years so that we can buy a house and start out with a large chunk of it paid off and then start the baby-planning. I grew up in a family with not a lot of money, so my first goal for our future is to get us as financially secure as possible and my fiance agrees.

We definitely do not want kids.

I"ll tell you that I am married for 2 years now, and wanted to wait as well, however, now we`re having a difficult time getting pregnant. I`m 26 and he`s 28 - as don`t get me wrong, we are not complaining about the practice....but we would definitely want a baby out of our efforts. If you can have them, and want them, do it while you can and are ready.
Good luck to all of you!!!

I am pregnant now so I guess the answer is YES!!!
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Amanda

I would love nothing more then to get pregnant after the wedding. I want 2 or 3 and my FH wants 3 or 4. He has a sweet little 8 year old now and I figure if I have 2 or 3 then we will have a great family of 5 or 6. I am so excited for more children. My FH and I wouldn`t be upset if we got pregnant now but I want to wait until after the wedding.

A fear of mine is that I won`t be able to have children but we`ve talked about it and will try as best as we can and if we aren`t blessed with any, then we will definately adopt.

My fiance and I will be 27 when we get married. Although we both want children I am still selfish with my time to give it up yet. I`m sure when the time is right we will both know but who knows we may be surprised one day without trying.LOL..I guess worse things could happen

My fiance and I are getting married on October 23, 2004, we are going to wait about 8-9 months before starting to try to get pregnant. MY best friend is having her wedding in July 2005 i am the maid of honor and i don`t want to be pregnant or very far along for that plus she is going to start trying to have a baby right then also so hopefully we can be pregnant together (she already has a 4 year old from her fiance). My fiance can`t wait to have babies and i think he will be the best dad to ours! :)