Stag Party Worries

Ok I`m trying very hard to be relaxed about the stag party being thrown for my fiance next week. I was really ok with the whole thing until I heard mention of hotel rooms & strippers. To me that sounds like things could easliy get out of control. I trust my fiance entirely but really don`t trust the guy making the arrangements. I`m wondering if my fianace is planning to spend the night at the hotel room or come home, but don`t want to ask. I want him to have fun. I`m wondering how other brides have handled the stag party stress.