Re: Wedding Dinner - Guests Pay

This one is just beyond me. If hosting a dinner for twelve puts you into debt, then there are bigger problems than the question in this post.

And to go so far as to say if the guests are offended then they shouldn`t attend, then you obviously don`t care much about your guests in the first place. That`s not the attitude a gracious host takes. If that`s your attitude, then I`d suggest that it be best if you just skip the dinner.

No matter how you look at it, no matter what justification or rationalization you provide, there is no way that inviting your guests to pay for the food at your wedding will ever be approrpriate.